These people are poor communicators.
Placater
Words- agrees (Whatever you want is okay. I am just here to make you happy.)
Insides- "I feel like a nothing: without someone I am worthless."
The Placater always talks in an apologetic way, never disagreeing, no matter what. This is the "yes man". This person always needs someone to approve of him.
Blamer
Words- disagree (You never do anything right. What is the matter with you?)
Insides- "I am lonely and unsuccessful."
The blamer is a fault-finder, dictator, and a boss. They act superior to others and seem to be saying: "If it weren't for you everything would be alright." The voice is hard, tight, and often shrill and loud.
Computer
Words- ultra-reasonable (Observes others closely)
Insides- "I feel vulnerable."
Very correct, reasonable, with no semblance of any feeling showing. They are calm, cool, collected. The voice is often monotone.
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