Peer Pressure-some examples

At some point, everyone has the desire to fit into a group. If you're interested in sports, you might hang out with the "jocks." If you're interested in music, you spend time with others who enjoy music. You belong to that group, and feel secure when you’re part of it. The group identifies who you are and what you’re about.
But what if people in "your group" start doing things that are wrong, hurtful, or even illegal? And what if these same people are your friends?
This is what we refer to as peer pressure -- the pressure to conform to the behaviors, attitudes, and personal habits of "the group." In many cases, there are serious risks involved. Let’s look at some common situations.

Separate the students into groups and have them brainstorm what they would tell the following students:

1. "My friends told me about this party at this abandoned warehouse on Friday night. I know there’s going to be alcohol involved, and someone there is supposed to bring some marijuana. I don’t drink or do drugs, but I don’t want them to think I’m a loser." 
2. "This older guy at church that I really like smokes cigarettes. He keeps offering them to me and my friends. Last week my best friend Stacy smoked one with him." 
3. "My girlfriend keeps pleading with me to go all the way with her. She says "everybody’s having sex" these days, but I want to save myself for marriage. All of my friends have had sex, and I really like my girlfriend. I don’t want her to think I’m some kind of prude."
4. "My best friend calls people names behind their back.  The other students at the lunch table are starting to join in with her.  I feel like I have to say bad things about people to fit in with them.  If I tell them to stop they might start calling me a #$@%.

Have each group share their situation and their solution with the class.
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