Are you in an abusive relationship?

Answer the following questions to see if your current relationship is abusive:

Does your partner...
-embarrass or make fun of you in front of family or any others?
-put down your goals or accomplishments?
-use intimidation or threats to get their own way?
-tell you that you are nothing without them?
-pressure you sexually to do things you are not ready for?
-make you feel like anything that goes wrong is your fault?
-blame you for how they feel?
-prevent you from going or doing things you want-like hanging out with your friends?
-use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for saying hurtful things or abusing you?
-try to keep you from leaving after a fight, or leave you somewhere after a fight to "teach you a lesson"?
-call you several times a night or show up to make sure you are where you said you would be?

Do you...
-sometimes feel scared of how your partner will act?
-constantly make excuses to other people for your partner's behavior?
-believe you can make your partner change if you changed something about yourself?
-try not to do anything that would cause conflict or make your partner angry?
-feel like no matter what you do your partner is never happy?